Weekly Rustlings


Hey y’all, Happy Unofficial Start of Summer, aka Memorial Day Weekend! I hope you all have founds ways to enjoy the outdoors, a place to put your feet up and relax, but most of all a way to show your gratitude and appreciation for the men and women that serve our country and protect our freedom (the reason for the season).

This time of year is when I start planning out all of the great ways to have fun in Raleigh over the next few months. Some of my favorite things are movies, concerts, and often times free. Here are a couple of ways to fill your time this summer in and about Raleigh:

  1. PNC Downtown Movie Series [FREE]
  2. Midtown Beach Music Series [FREE]
  3. WakeMed Movies by Moonlight [FREE for kids under 12, $5 for others]
  4. Raleigh Road Outdoor Theater [$7 Adults, $5 Kids]

What will you be doing this summer? xoxo ‘n lols, crystal

Pick 6: Summertime Sangria Recipes


In my opinion, sangria is the perfect summertime drink. I love how versatile it is and pretty much anyone can make their own version. A great foundation for a signature cocktail! Since this weekend is Memorial Day weekend and the unofficial start of summer, I thought I’d share my six picks for summer sangrias!

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Mamahood Advice from Lindsay of Lindsay Erin

Hi Under the Oaks readers!  I’m Lindsay; wife to Justin, mom to Carson, self-proclaimed fitness and nutrition nerd.  A little over a year ago (wow – time flies!) I had just delivered my son unexpectedly early and found myself struggling to stay on track at home.

The first days, weeks, months of motherhood are really survival of the fittest.  I recall grabbing whatever I could eat with one hand, 3 minute showers, and falling in love with the simplicity and ease of Clorox wipes.  It is definitely a time where convenience trumps everything.

There are a few things you can do as a new mom to stay healthy that don’t take a lot of time or energy.

1. Keep fresh fruit and vegetables in eye sight.

A lot of people suggest keeping fresh fruit and vegetables on hand, but I would go one step further and say to have them out in front of you so that when you are hungry, you reach for those choices instead of a bag of chips.  Put your fruit bowl on the very first surface you see when you enter your kitchen.  Have veggies in clear containers at the front of your fridge.

2. Meal plan.

This is so much easier said than done, but the time it takes to plan pays off throughout the week.  The first few months Carson was born, I was guilty of trying frozen meal after frozen meal from the supermarket.  We had never eaten them before so I was literally trying them and hoping they would taste good.  It is good to have those on hand, but it is best to plan out your meals and do as much prep up front (while daddy is home to help) so that the weeknights are easier.

Utilize your crockpot, make one dish meals, or casseroles.  I found if I could put something in the oven or the crockpot and not stand at the stove, that worked best for me.  For quick and easy lunches I love these simple mushroom pizzas or this cucumber tomato salad.

3. Get a water bottle with a straw.

This sounds silly, but it is essential as a new mom to stay hydrated.  Still I carry around this water bottle everywhere I go because it holds 32 ounces, has a straw (we drink more out of straws – think about the last time you had a milkshake), and with the push of a button I can drink out of it which means I can hold a baby in one hand and the water bottle in my other.

4. Rest.

Everyone tells you to sleep when the baby sleeps.  I couldn’t.  I’m not a napper.  However, don’t fill every napping moment with household duties.  Instead, sit on the couch with a cup of coffee or tea and read a magazine, watch reality tv, or scroll through Instagram.  Just rest.

5. Give yourself some grace.

You just delivered a miracle.  Do not expect yourself to lose the weight overnight or in the course of a few weeks.  Do not expect to be able to go out and run a 5k as soon as the doctor clears you for activity.  Be patient and gentle with yourself.  The worst thing you can do is stand in the mirror and analyze every little thing that doesn’t look the way it once did or list the things you once could do and now can’t.  You will get there.  It will take time.  So give yourself a grace period.

I love sharing fitness/nutrition tips and healthy recipes over at my blog, Lindsay Erin.  I would love to have you pop over and read about my goals, the things I do to keep myself sane, or my ventures in health and fitness for my family.

Thanks for contributing to the Mamahood Advice Series, Lindsay!

Mamahood Advice series features blogging mamas from around the web each month sharing their advice for new moms. Interested in being a guest blogger for this series? Email me! hello [at] undertheoaksblog [dot] com.


Weekly Rustlings

20150516_145830 It’s amazing what a few hanging plants and new chairs can do to a front porch. The porch will actually look quite different when we are done with it (new railings, moving the front door, new front steps) but in the meantime I wanted a place to enjoy the weather and this was the low-cost fix I needed! The hanging plants were also a mother’s day gift! Hope you all enjoyed your weekend! — Annie


May Book Review: Sweet Valley Confidential

IMG_1035.JPG Where are all my Sweet Valley High fans at? This one is for you!

For this month’s book review I read Francine Pascal’s Sweet Valley Confidential: 10 Years Later. This book has been sitting on my shelf for a few years. I bought it at a Borders going out of business sale because I wanted to relive a piece of my childhood. I, personally, was more of a Baby-Sitters Club devotee, but I did spend my fair share of hours deep in the throes of the drama of the Wakefield twins, Elizabeth and Jessica.

Before I began my journey with the now 27-year old twins, I read the various reviews on the net, and I’ll be honest, they weren’t good! So I kept the book on my shelf for a time better suited for taking on a reading risk. The past two months you may, or may not have, noticed there was no book review. I tried. I tried to get into a few books and they were all really disappointing that I couldn’t even finish. So I thought, why not? Why not dive into this book that may or may not disappoint me from the get-go. I wasn’t disappointed. Continue reading